life lessons

hi friends,
i guess you all must be aware of the bad news by now that my neighbour shubhakaki is no more with us now. she passed away on Wednesday night, leaving many lives shattered and teaching life lessons to many people.
The biggest lesson i have learnt is that life is truly totally unpredictable. so live every moment as it comes and let your loved ones know that you love them. such incidences in life also teach us that small small misunderstandings and small small fights between people dont really matter. sometmies we feel bad about what a friend said or how our sister neglected us or how our spouce took us for granted. but these things really look very silly and waste of the precious moments, which we could have been rather spent understanding our loved one or forgiving that small thing or may be just saying sorry about some small thing. really it makes you realise that we put our selves too much into thinking of unwanted silly things like feeling bad because some one didnt call me or feeling bad because some friend didnt listen to me or such things. life is too short and unpredictable for all this. each moment of life will be worth living if we rather spend it spreading love and giving selfless love. every relationship can be without rules. there are no rules in love and there are no give and take deals in love. trust me friends, i have learnt this through the pain of loosing someone very very close to my heart.
and i dont want anyone to go through that pain but just wanted to tell you all that if i have ever hurt any of you somewhere or done something that made you upset. please do forgive me. and just that i love you all. you all are my family.